Hi. I’m Mort Fertel, founder of The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp.
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp is an alternative to marriage counseling and the most successful marriage crisis program in the world.
I am not sure I could have done it without you. I would have given up and believed that because he was with someone else we were done. Thank you. We are forever indebted.
My wife and I were deeply in love. I remember staying up all night talking, surprising each other with thoughtful gifts, and speaking to each other in code words. You know the feeling of really being connected? That was us.
But then something happened that destroys most marriages. We had a son who died when he was one week old. And then we had twin daughters, who also died as newborns.
Your situation probably was not so tragic, but something happened. What was it? How did you lose each other? An affair? Neglect? Or maybe you can't put your finger on why things aren't right anymore. That's common too.
For us, after losing 3 children, everything felt different. Instead of talking all night, it was a chore to talk for a few minutes. Instead of using our code words, we used curse words. Our relationship consisted of screaming matches and silent treatments.
Somewhere deep in our heart though, like you, we knew we didn't want to lose each other. So we made a commitment to work on our marriage. Sometimes I tried and my wife didn't. Sometimes my wife tried and I didn't. Sometimes we tried together. We went through different stages of "trying."
What did we try? We tried the obligatory, "Honey, let me repeat what you said to make sure I understood you correctly." We applied conflict resolution strategies. My wife learned about Mars and I learned about Venus. We even went to counseling to wrestle with our problems. But guess what. Nothing changed. Nothing worked.
All the advice we got (books, counselors...whatever) asked us to confront our problems. But that just made us feel worse. And fight more.
As long as the usual methods weren't working, why not be dysfunctional? So we tried to convince each other. You tried that too, right? Obviously, that doesn't work.
Finally, we had a breakthrough. We decided to SET ASIDE OUR PROBLEMS. We didn't talk about them at all. We didn't bring them up even once. Instead, we put our energy into trying to connect. We used certain relationship techniques that transformed our marriage. Not only did we resolve our differences; we fell in love again! And we did it not by dealing with our problems (as serious as they were), but by establishing new relationship habits that brought positive energy to our marriage.
This is the solution to most marital situations
to "step away" from your problems and spend your time and energy building your relationship through positive actions. If you do this RIGHT, your problems will dissipate, the threat of divorce will go away, and the other people invading your marriage will become irrelevant. Slowly but surely you will feel close again.
It would have been nice to know all this years ago, right? Well, it’s NOT too late. In my experience, it’s never too late. I mean that. Never. And if you think it’s too late just read the user reviews on this site or Google “Mort Fertel” and read the stories online. You’ll see thousands of stories about people just like you, who went through this program and turned it all around.
Here’s one of those stories…
My story is probably typical. Husband fell into an affair with a woman at work and left me. I got the Marriage Fitness program. Husband was very obstinate at first, but now we are happier than ever.
I want to CAUTION YOU about one thing and be totally upfront. This is NOT a quick fix program. I'm not going to promise that if you register today your marriage will be healed tomorrow (don't believe anyone who makes such a promise). I'll give you instant access to everything you need to begin the reconciliation process today, but it's going to take 7 weeks and real effort for you to climb your way out of this mess completely. But if you put in the time and effort, I'll show you step-by-step how to transform your marriage. It won't be overnight, but the results will last you a lifetime.
My wife filed for the divorce and moved out. Marriage Fitness turned me into a better person. My wife moved back in and we have been happily married ever since. Thank You.
A sequential delivery of marriage-transforming insights and skills so relevant you’ll feel I designed them for YOUR marriage. You'll learn exactly what to do to turn your marriage around and how to apply the Marriage Fitness approach of relationship renewal to your situation. (These seminars take place on a TELEconference. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And there's no extra charge. If you're doing the program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from 2 different locations.)
I'll be your very own personal marriage adviser. I'll answer your questions, counsel you every step of the way, and hold you accountable to your goals. Your "laser" session is conducted via telephone and scheduled at a mutually convenient time. (More details below)
Listen in your car, at home, while you're traveling or exercising. Choose between CDs or instant digital online access. This audio series will answer every question you have about how to transform your marriage. And you'll get step-by-step instructions on how to turn your marriage around. This is the most comprehensive audio program on the topic of marriage renewal available anywhere in the world.
This is where the rubber meets the road...where you'll learn to put ideas into practice. Roll up your sleeves and dive into assessments, assignments, and "to-do" exercises. You'll be amazed at the results of your efforts based on these assignments. There's almost 200 pages of insights, practices, and journal entries that serve as the perfect companion to the 15 Part Audio Learning System. This workbook can be completed with or without your spouse (see "Lone Ranger Track" below). Choose hard copy or instant digital online access.
During a pre-scheduled hour (see schedule below) I'll conduct a live open Q and A teleconference. You can call in with questions or just listen for answers. This is where YOU set the agenda and get to determine what issues get addressed and which circumstances get explored in depth. Here you'll get personal access to my counsel...and this is in addition to your 1-on-1 private session with me. (These are TELEconferences. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And there's no extra charge. If you're doing the program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from 2 different locations.)
Five printings and thousands of copies sold. Endorsed by Dr. John Gray (Mars/Venus) and Dr. Stephen Covey (7 Habits) as well as literally hundreds of counselors, therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, PhD's, social workers, relationship experts, authors, and, most importantly, readers who have renewed their marriage. You can choose between a personally autographed copy or an e-book available for instant download.
These assignments will help you LIVE what you learn. You'll be amazed at how much progress you'll make.
This schedule gives you a clear step-by-step path that will transport you to a renewed marriage. You'll have DAILY assignments to complete and weekly benchmarks to hit.
These assessments reveal the areas of your marriage that require special attention.
What if you miss a teleconference? No problem. All the teleconferences are recorded and you can listen to the recordings from your members-only website or download them to your Smartphone, iPad, or any listening device.
This special track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is customized for people dealing with an uncooperative spouse who are doing the program ALONE. (see below for more information)
This track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is customized for couples doing the program TOGETHER. (see below for more information)
Is your spouse obstinate? Won't take your calls? Checked-out? Unwilling to get help? Having an affair? Moved out? Filed for divorce?
The Lone Ranger Track is designed for people dealing with an uncooperative spouse and who are doing the program ALONE. In most cases, the obstinate spouse is having an affair, moved out, filed for divorce, or all of the above.
If you take the right steps, you can draw your spouse back in and begin to restore your marriage.
It does NOT take 2 to tango. A marriage can be transformed by one spouse. In the Lone Ranger Track, you'll learn how to single-handedly improve your marital situation AND inspire your spouse to finally join you in the process of renewing your marriage. And when your spouse does come around, you can switch to the Duo Track at anytime for no additional cost.
I know you would rather do the program with your spouse and I know it's hard to try when your spouse is not. But the longer you wait before being proactive the worse your situation will get. It's NEVER too late. YOU can make the difference and get things going in the right direction. A bridge can be built from either side. Start building!
The Duo Track is designed for couples doing the program together.
(If you and your spouse are both participating in the program, you should register for the Duo Track regardless of your marital situation. If you're separated, you can still do the Duo Track, pay only one price, and call-in for the teleconferences from different phone lines.)
You should NOT pressure your spouse to do the program with you. Simply INVITE them to join you. If they say "no," then sign-up for the Lone Ranger Track. Once you're in the Lone Ranger Track, I'll teach you how to motivate your spouse to join you. You can switch to the Duo Track at anytime during the program for no additional cost.
Regardless of which track you choose, if you want to save your marriage...if you want to relieve your pain and bring love to your life . . . this is your chance! The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp is more effective AND less costly than counseling and significantly more comprehensive and personal than any self-help book, kit, or other online program. And, it's a completely private experience!Are you ready?
If you miss a teleconference, it's not a problem. All the teleconferences are recorded and you can listen to the recordings from your members-only website or download them to your Smartphone, iPad, or any listening device.
Also not a problem. If you have a question, simply email it to me before the teleconference. I'll answer your question, and then you can listen to a recording of the teleconference from your members-only website or download it to your Smartphone, iPad, or any listening device.
The program materials are available in 2 formats: 1) Online Digital Access 2) Hard Copy Delivery. If you choose Online Digital Access, you'll have access to everything immediately. If you choose Hard Copy Delivery, it'll be a few days before you receive your materials; however, you do NOT need to receive your hard copy materials before the first teleconference. Immediately after you register, you'll receive an email with the call-in instructions for the first teleconference and you do not need the materials in order to participate in that first teleconference.
The teleconferences, which span over a 7 week period, are only one part of the program. The majority of the program (the 15 part audio learning system, the workbook, your private session with me, etc.) are available to you NOW. You'll have more than enough marriage help resources IMMEDIATELY. You can get right to work changing your situation and the teleconference schedule protects you from fading out and will ensure that you continue to apply everything you learn from the other resources.
Ordering is RISK FREE. In short, if you're not satisfied for any reason, just return the materials to me in resalable condition received anytime within 30 days of ordering (if you ordered the Digital Online Access version this is not required; instead, just email me that you want a refund within 30 days of ordering), and as long as you've used me for your private 1-on-1 session (included with your registration) by then, I'll gladly refund your money. I can't be any fairer than that. No questions asked. But I know it won't happen because this program works and I'm going to be there for you every step of the way to make sure you succeed.
Think about it…what is this marital mess costing you? I don’t mean in dollars; I’m talking about the emotional pain, the sleepless nights, and the stress. Your marriage right now, rather than being a source of joy, is destroying your life. You have to do something.
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.”
If you want to change your situation, you need to learn new ways. You need to do things different. If you don’t, you may look back one day on a marriage that spiraled out of control and wonder how it could have been different if you had the right guidance at the right time. This is the time. I’m your guide.
Your situation will not resolve itself. These situations never do.
Let's get to work.
Mort Fertel
Author & Founder, Marriage Fitness
P.S. If you’re hesitant, here’s an extra incentive. Order now and then send me an email with “Bonus” as the subject telling me you ordered and I’ll send you a free copy of “Put Love First,” an unabridged live audio recording of my most popular seminar. If you register now and email me with “Bonus” in the subject line I’ll send it to you FREE as a special bonus!
After listening to the first CD, I was blown away, and things started to make sense. Without this program, I would have said and done all the wrong things. Today, our marriage is the best it's been.
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot camp program is $399 payable today, or, if you prefer a payment plan of $159 a month for 3 months.
The payment plan is $159/month for 3 months. The first payment is due now, upon registration. The second payment is automatically billed to the credit card you provide in 30 days. And the third and final payment is automatically billed to the credit card you provide in 60 days.
100% MONEY BACK GUARANTEE. Ordering is RISK FREE. In short, if you're not satisfied for any reason, just return the materials to me in resalable condition received anytime within 30 days of ordering (if you ordered the Digital Online Access version this is not required; instead, just email me that you want a refund within 30 days of ordering), and as long as you've used me for your private 1-on-1 session (included with your registration) by then, I'll gladly refund your money. I can't be any fairer than that. No questions asked. But I know it won't happen because this program works and I'm going to be there for you every step of the way to make sure you succeed.
We accept all major credit cards, but if you prefer you can mail a money order or a bank check for $399 plus shipping and handling payable to MarriageMax, Inc. to the following address:
Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel
4701B Falls Road
Baltimore, MD 21209
We estimate the success rate for the program to be about 90%. Of course, every situation is unique and your results may vary from the typical experience. But our experience is that if you work the program; the program will work for you. As you know, you can try it risk free for 30 days. If it doesn't work, return it.
With this program, you can do it alone and it still works. In the Lone Ranger Track, which is for people dealing with an uncooperative spouse, you'll learn how to improve your marital situation despite your spouse's obstinance. You'll also learn how to motivate your spouse to join you in the program. At least half the people who order the program begin in the Lone Ranger Track and it has proven extremely successful. After you order, you can switch from one track to the other at anytime for no cost.
You should NOT pressure your spouse to do the program with you. Simply INVITE them to join you. If they say "no," then sign-up for the Lone Ranger Track. Once you're in the Lone Ranger Track, I'll teach you how to motivate your spouse to join you. You can switch to the Duo Track at anytime during the program for no additional cost. If you and your spouse are both participating in the program, you should register for the Duo Track regardless of your marital situation.
The Marriage Fitness program is incredibly convenient. You don't have to go anywhere to participate. You do it from your home or your office.
The program materials are available in 2 formats: 1) Online Digital Access 2) Hard Copy Delivery. If you choose Online Digital Access, you'll have access to everything immediately. If you choose Hard Copy Delivery, it'll be a few days before you receive your materials; however, you do NOT need to receive your hard copy materials before the first teleconference. Immediately after you register, you'll receive an email with the call-in instructions for the first teleconference and you do not need the materials in order to participate in that first teleconference.
There is no special technology required to participate in the program. If you want to join the teleconferences live, you’ll need a telephone. If you prefer to listen to a recording of the teleconferences from your members only web site, then you’ll need internet access. That's it.
If you miss a teleconference, it's not a problem. All the teleconferences are recorded and you can listen to the recordings from your members-only website or download them to your Smartphone, iPad, or any listening device.
The program is designed to work for couples who are separated and doing the program from different locations. If you choose the digital online access, you can share the login credentials. If you choose the hard copy materials, you can either share them or order a second copy ($49.99 + shipping).
We are happy to provide you with a receipt for all services rendered; whether those services would be covered by your insurance company is up to your insurance company and I suggest you check with them.
We have many customers from all over the world. People have participated in the Marriage Fitness program from England, France, Bulgaria, Ireland, South Africa, Canada, Spain, Australia, China, Thailand, Malaysia, Germany, Singapore, Indonesia, Vietnam, Brazil, Iraq, Mexico, Chile, Norway, Morocco, and many other countries as well.